Easter isn’t a big holiday in my family, so every year, my husband and I drive to see his parents for the weekend. One event that we always make time for is the Racine Art Museum’s (RAM) International PEEPS Art Exhibition. Every year, the RAM accepts art donations, and the art has to be inspired by or made out of PEEPS. I think it’s the wildest concept, and I’m here for it. I wanted to share this year’s submissions and share the art that I liked the best.
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There were a lot of great submissions this year. At the end of the exhibit, you can vote for your favorite, and the winner will earn a prize. I voted for the Purple PEEPle Eater, which refers to the Purple People Eaters, which is a term for the Minnesota Vikings. I liked how the Purple PEEPle Eater was spooky. My husband voted for a PEEP display that was a take on The Jetsons. Another fun art piece that was submitted was PEEPS with Solar Eclipse glasses looking up at the sky. I believe there was also a Barbie PEEP submission as well.
This year’s PEEP exhibit did not disappoint. I’m curious to see what next year’s submissions will be.
Last weekend was Planet Comicon,and I’m happy to have been able to go this year. Planet Comicon has quickly become a convention staple for me, and it’s a convention that I try to work into my schedule every year. Attending Planet Comiconis easy for me since I have family near Kansas City, so it makes for a cheap and quick trip outside of Minnesota. It was a jam-packed weekend and created a nice kickoff to convention season.
Photo taken by someone at the convention on my phone.
For Planet Comicon, I only go on Friday, so I can spend the remainder of the weekend with family. Attending bigger conventions on Friday is something I would recommend for those who don’t want to compete with a bigger crowd. I find that it’s easier to walk the show floor and take a breather by sitting in on a panel or two. The other benefit of going on Friday is that it’s a lot easier to take photos. Planet Comiconhas several photo opportunities with cosplayers and backdrops. I ended up taking a photo with Emperor Palpatine, which was fitting considering Ian McDiarmid was at the convention. Speaking of cosplay, I debuted my Padmecosplay for the first time! I’m thrilled with how the look came together.
In between panels and photos, I did end up purchasing a few comics. I bought K. Lynn Smith’s third volume of Plume, which is a Western supernatural adventure comic. I talk about K. Lynn Smith a lot because I like her comics and her art style. It’s become a routine where I look up ahead of time if she will be there, and if so, I try to stop by her booth. I also bought a comic from Mad Cave Studios. As a side note, Mad Caveis one of the greatest comic publishers out there. They publish comics that many publishers might pass up on if the concept is a little odd. If that wasn’t enough, Mad Caveactually pays its artists on time. The reason I pointed this out is that I went to Mad Cave’scomic panel on Friday, and they talked about their partnerships with artists and what that process is like when they work with a new artist for the first time.
Planet Comicon is always a convention that I look forward to because it usually ends up being the first convention that I attend. The only grievance that I have with Planet Comiconis that I wish they did convention badges instead of wristbands. They might have badges for those attending the whole weekend, but I wouldn’t know since I only attend on Friday. I prefer badges to wristbands because I have a designated hook in my bedroom where all my badges hang, and the wristbands, I don’t know what to do with them. Other than that, Planet Comiconis a blast.
Photo taken by me.
Besides attending Planet Comicon, we found a new BBQ place to eat at. For those who haven’t been to Kansas City, I consider Kansas City a “foodie” city. Kansas City is known for its BBQ, but also the breweries throughout the area. My cousin took me to Chef J, which is in an area called the West Bottoms. The West Bottoms is west of downtown, across the river, and in a more industrial area. Chef J is in one of the older buildings, which is actually really neat. It looks like the city is trying to revitalize the area since there are several vintage shops, furniture stores, and live music playing somewhere nearby. Back to Chef J, the BBQ was so good. I had a BBQ sandwich with sausage on it, and I had to order Mac and Cheese as a side. It was delicious and worth the wait.
After eating BBQ, we went to two breweries. The first brewery was Double Shift Brewery, which was only a few minutes from Chef J. The brewery was tucked away in this corner with all of these local businesses. There was a distillery across the street, a coffee shop, and a few art murals on the nearby buildings. My cousin had a beer called “Pancake Mafia,” which had hints of syrup, vanilla, blueberries, and blackberries. I wasn’t quite as adventurous with the beer that I picked. After Double Shift, we went to Cinder Block Brewery, which is a brewery that I have been to many times. I love the taproom; it’s open and sunny. It has an industrial look to it with the gray paneling in the main seating area. It was relaxing being able to sit, especially because I walked 20,000 steps at the convention the day prior.
This weekend was what I needed! I haven’t taken a trip since our Europe trip last September, and my travel bug was starting to come back. There’s nothing more fun than being able to travel and attend a convention at the same time.
I’m a part of a local Dungeons & Dragons Facebook group that’s based in Minnesota. I joined the group several years ago as a way to play and discuss TTRPGs. I saw a post shared in the group a few days ago highlighting an event Badwolf Adventure Studioswas hosting. For $30, Badwolf was going to lead a one-shot at White Bear Meadery, a local mead hall in the Twin Cities. Someone commented on the post that anyone who pays for Dungeons & Dragons is “desperate”. Normally, when I read a comment like this, I ignore it. However, I felt a little sassy and decided to respond. In my response, I explained why I chose to pay for sessions and why this worked for me. I did add in my response that it seemed rude to call those who do pay “desperate”. He responded back to me and said that I was being “exploited” and “manipulated”. I realized I wasn’t going to have a respectful conversation with this person, so I chose to ignore him and not engage further.
The post ended up getting more popular than I thought it would. A few hours later, I saw numerous comments from people defending me and saying that the way he communicated his opinion wasn’t appropriate. The admins were quickly made aware of the situation and have since deleted the comments (including mine), which I think was the right thing to do. This interaction solidified why I wanted to write this. I wanted to talk about my experience with pay-to-play in the TTRPG space and why I think this has worked for me.
There are a few things that I want to say before I get into this. The first is that I am not here to convince anyone to pay for their sessions. I’m simply talking about my experience in this area. As a side note, I am not being sponsored by Badwolf,and all of my opinions are my own. The last thing I wanted to say was that I don’t believe that TTRPGs should be hidden behind a paywall. I would hate to see a hobby I love be attached to additional costs.
I wanted to briefly share how I started playing TTRPGs and how that led me to the pay-to-play format. I started roleplaying in 2017 when I joined a one-shot at a local game store where a group was running Call of Cthulhu. I had so much fun! I knew right away that I wanted to find more opportunities to play, as I loved the creativity of coming up with a character and seeing my character explore the world that the game is built around. After listening to NADDPOD (Not Another DnD Podcast), Critical Role, and discovering Vampire: The Masquerade at Gen Conin 2019, I was enamored by TTRPGs.
The pandemic threw a wrench in playing TTRPGs in person. After getting my COVID vaccine, I was ready to try again to find a long-term group. Most players can find a group by getting a group of friends together to play. Most of my friends don’t play TTRPGs, so for me, that wasn’t going to work. Throughout 2021, I attended several meetups at game stores to find something that would stick. Most of these groups dissipated after the first session due to a lack of interest and schedules not aligning. I felt disappointed at not being able to find a group, yet determined to keep going. I can’t exactly remember how I discovered Badwolf, but the rest is history.
This leads me to why I feel that pay-to-play is worth it. Each session that I play in is high quality. The DM has crafted a world that I feel fortunate enough to play. There’s a whole political system, map, and factions that make the experience immersive. The DMs that I have played with at Badwolf are experienced and are great at keeping track of our characters, abilities, and all the NPCs, which is a lot to juggle. I tend to ask a lot of questions as I am still exploring what Vesper, my Variant Human Sorcerer, is capable of. I have never felt ashamed to ask questions, and I feel that with each session I play in, I’m becoming more experienced with 5e. When I play in paid sessions, I get an incredible TTRPG experience that I don’t think I would find organically.
Another reason I chose pay-to-play is the commitment from the players since there is a cost associated with it. With each player choosing to pay money per session, everyone shows up. If, for whatever reason, players aren’t able to attend, Badwolfhas run one shots for our group for those who can play. One-shots are great because it’s a break from our main campaign, and it gives me a chance to try out a new class I haven’t played yet. I find this concept to be similar to how I treat my gym membership. I’m more inclined to work out each week because I’m paying to be there. I can’t believe I’m saying this, but I actually look forward to Mondays now.
There’s one more critique I saw on a separate post regarding pay-to-play that I wanted to address. One person commented and stated that those who pay-to-play are “buying their friends”. That couldn’t be further from the truth. In the first Badwolf campaign that I was in, our group didn’t socialize much outside of our session. In the Monday session, I’m in now, our group is active on Discord, sharing memes, reviewing the session, and talking about our lives. It’s a completely different dynamic from the previous campaign that I was in. No one is forcing anyone to talk to each other; it’s simply an added bonus of pay-to-play since we are all having a great experience together.
In my specific situation, pay-to-play works great for me. It’s a guarantee that I will play each week, and I like that it gives me something fun to look forward to on Mondays. If the concept of pay-to-play is absurd to you, that’s fine! Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and it’s okay to voice that opinion and offer criticism. With that said, once that opinion turns into name-calling, that’s where I draw the line. I am excited for what’s to come in our campaign, and for those who are looking for a group, I wish you luck, and I hope you find your group!
Being raised as a fan of Minnesota sports teams is often a disappointing experience. The last time the Minnesota Twins won the World Series was 1991. The Minnesota Vikings have never won the Super Bowl. If that wasn’t enough, both the Minnesota Wild and the Minnesota Timberwolves have never won championships. One team that was doing well was the Milwaukee Bucks, which is Wisconsin’s Basketball team. The Bucks play at Fiserv Forum, which is in downtown Milwaukee. A few weeks ago, we went to a Bucks game with my husband’s family, and funnily enough, we went to the game where the Bucks played the Minnesota Timberwolves. Spoiler alert: Minnesota crushed Wisconsin.
Photo taken by my husband with permission to share.
Let’s be honest, Fiserv Forum is a much nicer stadium than Target Center (Target Center being where the Minnesota Timberwolves play). Outside of Fiserv, huge letters are spelling out Bucks, which serves as the perfect background for a photo. Near the stadium, there are several bars and breweries to have a drink at. I thought the atmosphere of Fiserv was fun. The best part about watching sports live is feeling a part of the fan community. Sporting events are basically comic book conventions, but centered around sports.
Photo taken by me.
I made the earlier comment about Minnesota sports being disappointing. The Minnesota Timberwolves are doing great this season. I don’t follow Basketball, so I didn’t realize our team was doing so well. It ended up being a twenty-point game with Minnesota taking home the win. My father-in-law wasn’t too pleased, but I was happy.
I would definitely go to another Bucks game again. Fiserv Forum is a great stadium, and the energy that fans bring is electric.
I mentioned this in a previous post, but 2024 will be a significant year. It will be the tenth anniversary of dating and meeting my husband. It will also be the tenth anniversary of starting Bizarre Brunette. If all of that wasn’t enough, I will be turning thirty. To help do a final send-off of my 20s, I wanted to share some of the life lessons I learned throughout this time in my life.
CW: Excessive drinking, body dysmorphia, and body insecurities.
It takes Two to Maintain a Friendship
Photo taken by one of my friends with permission to share.
I am incredibly fortunate when it comes to my friends. I have friends I grew up with, friends I made in college, and friends I met through my hobbies, along with attending conventions. While I have a great group of friends now, there was a time in my life when I struggled to make new friends.
In my freshman year of college, I met so many different people in a short amount of time. Most of the people that I initially met, they never developed into a lasting friendship. There were moments throughout my freshman and sophomore years when I felt lonely. I didn’t have anyone that I could text randomly to go do things with. In freshman year, there was one person with whom I instantly clicked. She was geeky like me, and we had similar interests. I was so excited to meet someone I could connect with. I had noticed that I was the one putting in the effort to make plans. I decided to take a step back and stop being the one to engage first. Weeks went by, and I didn’t hear from her. With that being said, we stopped being friends. Eventually, I did make a few close friends, so everything ended up working out in the end.
When I graduated from college, I naively assumed that all my college friends would be my friends forever, even though we weren’t in the same place or living together. I couldn’t have been more wrong. There was one friend that I tried to make time to see, but again, I always had to be the one to reach out. I haven’t talked to her since before the pandemic, which feels like a lifetime ago. The final thing that formally ended our friendship was when she didn’t congratulate me on my engagement to my husband, even though she was there when our relationship began. That’s how I knew our friendship was over.
I used to carry a lot of resentment when friendships ended, and that isn’t mentally healthy for me. Instead, I am grateful for those friends at that time in my life. While those friendships won’t carry over into my thirties, I wish them well.
Sober Curious: Re-Evaluating My Drinking Habits
I always considered myself a responsible drinker. In college, I went to parties, but I never missed any classes due to being hungover. I had my moments, as many college kids did, but I didn’t feel like it negatively impacted my life. After graduating from college, my friends and I would go out. We would go to bars or to various breweries and stay out late. I still didn’t feel like my drinking was out of control, as I attributed it to being a social drinker.
When the pandemic hit, that’s when I started to first realize that maybe the way that I was drinking wasn’t good for me. Every Friday night during quarantine, I’d drink at home. Of course, it was never one drink. It ended up being three or four hard seltzers. I’d usually drink them while playing video games, as I thought that served as a good distraction during this stressful time. On Saturday, I woke up with a slight headache. Once I had coffee and drank water, I was fine. After a few weeks of this, I forced myself to stop drinking on Friday, and I thought that was the end of it.
When I reflect on both 2020 and 2021, I would have blips where I would drink too much. I wouldn’t be sick, but I would feel off the entire day. There was another moment in 2020 when I drank around coworkers. I ended up mixing an IPA with red wine, which was clearly a mistake. The fact that this happened around coworkers at the time makes the story more embarrassing, considering these were people who were on my team. Every time I think back to that moment, I visibly cringe. With these blips occurring, I still didn’t think that alcohol was a problem.
I had a wake-up call, and that was The Winter Beer Dabbler in February 2022. It was extremely cold out, so I figured I’d just drink a lot and then I wouldn’t be cold anymore. Unsurprisingly, I ended up drinking quite a bit. Apparently, I fell in front of a DJ booth. To be fair, I slipped on the ice, but alcohol made it worse. Once we got home, I disclosed a lot of personal insecurities to my husband while intoxicated. When I woke up the next morning, I didn’t remember telling my husband any of those things. It was like alcohol brought out all of these thoughts that I was trying so hard to bury. While this was not a great moment, it actually led to a great conversation between my husband and me that I think helped strengthen our marriage. It sucks that alcohol was involved in that.
After The Winter Beer Dabbler, I was sober for a full month. I understand that a month isn’t a long time, but for someone who was a regular social drinker, that felt like a substantial amount of time. In that month, I journaled and started being honest with myself about how I drank. It became clear to me that I had an unhealthy relationship with drinking. For example, I’d eat less if I knew I was going out. I justified it in my head as I’d be drinking my calories. As I talk about this now, that thought feels like the beginning of an eating disorder because I’m calculating out how to eat less to drink more. Additionally, I relied on alcohol as a social crutch. I wanted people to think that I was outgoing and fun to hang out with. Alcohol gave me that confidence instead of trying to find it myself.
Since The Winter Beer Dabbler, I have decreased the amount I drink. I have eliminated alcohol from my weekly routine, and I never drink at home. I find it easy to go weekends in a row without drinking. I’m much more satisfied with one drink at a time versus having three to four beers in one sitting. I am in a much better place with alcohol, and I have a lot of good motivation to be sober more often than not.
I wanted to end with what motivates me to be sober. The first thing that has helped me is having a regular exercise routine. Every Saturday, I go to an 8:00 AM cycle class. The thought of drinking heavily on Friday to miss my cycle class on Saturday sounds unappealing. I find working out on the weekends has been especially beneficial. The second thing that has helped me is throwing myself into my hobbies. I have been playing video games more. I looked up the hours to an ice arena nearby as I’d love to get back into figure skating regularly. If that wasn’t enough, I looked up a few archery ranges as I’d love to learn how to shoot a bow. I am looking forward to the years ahead, and I’m glad that I’m leaving some of these drinking habits in my twenties.
Traveling is a Privilege
Photo taken by me.
When I was little, I used to write stories called “Amy’s Adventures.” I’d write about a young girl named Amy and how she would travel around the US. My dad used to pick up these U.S. state puzzle books where you could learn about a different US state, and then the puzzles would reveal various facts about each state. I knew from a young age that I wanted to travel.
If there is anything that I have learned about traveling, it’s that it’s a privilege to do so. To start off, it’s being able to financially afford to travel. When I started my first job out of college, there was no way that I could afford to travel overseas. The cost of airfare alone is high, and that’s not including lodging, souvenirs, food, drink, etc. I can easily say that this is the first time in my life that I have had the financial freedom to plan more extensive vacations.
Besides the cost of travel, it’s having the opportunity to do so. I work full-time in an office, which means I have PTO to use. I don’t travel for work, so all the travel that I do comes from my own personal vacations. When I was in college, there were study abroad programs, but none of them aligned with my degree. It would have been a trip, but it would have been disadvantageous if it had delayed me graduating on time. I know of a few friends who, after graduating from college, traveled the world before getting a full-time job. That sounds lovely, but not something I had the luxury of doing, as I needed a job right out of college.
Traveling to Europe was a dream come true. I have always had London at the top of all of my travel lists. Seeing Iceland and Ireland was an added bonus. Traveling to Europe taught me a lot, especially in establishing my travel preferences. We were gone two full weeks, and it started to feel like a long time. It made me miss my day-to-day routine, including working out and seeing Athena! I don’t know if I would enjoy being gone for a month or longer. Another thing that I learned from our trip to Europe was how much I put my self-worth into traveling. This is going to be a silly thing to admit, but I thought I would feel different after going to Europe. I accomplished this big dream that I have had, and when we got back, I felt no different. I put so much stock into the places that I have been and how I felt ashamed to say that it took me so long to travel overseas. Seeing influencers on Instagramhaving the time of their lives, I was constantly comparing myself to them. They live an entirely different life than I do; however, it doesn’t make my life insignificant.
It feels cathartic to type out all of this because this is something I have felt for a long time. In my thirties, I still want to travel, but I want to do it on my terms. I want to travel to places that I want to go to, no matter what anyone else thinks. I want to cut the cord of tying my self-worth to my travel. I will always be passionate about travel, but I think I’m more practical than I was in the past. I’m going to set realistic travel goals, practice gratitude, and be fortunate that I was able to see all the places that I have seen.
Thrifting & Having Less Clothing, But Loving Everything I Wear
Photo taken by my husband with permission to share.
I love expressing myself in the way that I dress. I like dressing up a basic outfit with earrings or wearing a dress I feel confident in. I find joy in taking one of my geeky t-shirts, whether it be Star Wars or Marvel, and being able to style it in multiple ways. I think it’s fun to show off my personality in the things that I wear, and it always tends to start conversations with people I didn’t know before.
In my early twenties, I used to revel in the fact that I owned a lot of clothing. I thought that the more clothing I owned, the more options I had. I liked the variety of wearing something different all the time. I used to spend so much money on new clothes, especially at Loft, which used to be one of my all-time favorite stores. However, most of my clothing from Loft, I ended up donating a few years later. The quality at Loftis terrible now. I have had blouses that I bought that have shrunk, so now they are practically crop tops. There are pants that I bought where the button came loose. I have a dress that I can’t iron, even though it’s wrinkly, because it would fall apart if I did. It’s a shame that I used to spend so much on low-quality clothing.
During the pandemic, I ordered a lot of clothing online since I wasn’t able to go shopping in person. I found that I ordered clothing online, and if it didn’t fit me or I didn’t like it, I wouldn’t return it because it would be an extra errand I have to make. It’s a shame because there are so many online boutiques I’d love to purchase from, but I know for a fact that online shopping doesn’t work for me. I need to be able to try something on and see how it fits.
Moving forward, I primarily do most of my shopping at Marshalls. I usually spend two to three hours browsing the racks and trying things on. Most of the clothing that I have purchased at Marshall’swill last me for several years. I want to get back into thrifting. I used to go to Goodwill, but I found that most Goodwill locations near me removed their fitting rooms. Finally, I want to find new ways to wear some of my favorite pieces in my closet.
Using my Library Card!
I’m going to keep this short and simple; libraries are the best. There aren’t many public places you can go to without needing to spend money. Libraries give back to their communities, and for many, libraries can be a safe space. One of my aunts is a retired librarian, so I was always reminded of the importance of libraries.
I’m looking forward to continuing to use my library card. I am someone who likes to have books on hold ahead of time, so I can quickly pick them up and take them with me. One of my favorite book bloggers, Nerdy By Nature, posted on her Instagram about her library savings. She created an Excel chart of every book that she rented from the library and then looked up that book’s retail cost. She shared what her cost savings were by renting books from the library versus buying them. That is so creative! I decided that I would be doing that this year. I’m curious to see what my overall money savings are from all the books I plan on borrowing this year.
I liked being able to put this post together. I feel like I’m letting go of a lot of negativity and baggage that I carried in my twenties. I am ready to begin my thirties.
I haven’t fully solidified my travel schedule for this year; however, I am consistent in the fact that I don’t find joy in traveling in January or February. With Minnesota winters, they can interrupt scheduled vacations. With that being the case, I like planning shorter trips throughout the first few months of the year. A few weekends ago, my husband and I went to stay with one of his friends from high school. They bought a house outside of Green Bay, and I thought it would be fun to stay with them for the weekend.
Photo taken by our friends.
I had only been to Green Bay once before, which, funnily enough, was for this friend’s wedding back in 2021. We didn’t have time to fully explore downtown Green Bay. One of the first things we did was go to a local coffee shop, which is fitting because I love coffee. After that, we went to Lambeau Field. I have done the stadium tour before, but I didn’t get to see the Hall of Fame. It was interesting! Lambeau Field carries so much in sports history. I mean, the Lombardi trophy is named after Vince Lombardi, the Packers’ head coach in the 1960s. While I am still a Minnesota Vikings fan, I found myself torn between rooting for the Packers. It’s funny, we were in town the same weekend the Packers were playing in the playoffs. I figured that with me being in town, they would obviously win against the 49ers. This was not the case, which was a huge bummer.
Photo taken by me.
After touring Lambeau, we ended up brewery hopping for most of the day. One of my favorite breweries was Copper State Brewing Co., which is in downtown Green Bay. They had a good tap list and the cheese curds! Going to Wisconsin, you have to eat cheese curds, I mean, c’mon. The cheese curds were so good. Curds and beer are a good combo.
It was a blast to be able to see our friends that we hadn’t seen in way too long. It reminds me how refreshing it is to take a mini-vacation, especially in January and February, which are tough months in the Midwest to begin with.
Board game cafes combine two of my favorite things: gaming, food, and coffee. Okay, three things, but still. I knew that there was going to be a board game cafe opening in the south metro, but thanks to Facebook, they had their grand opening a few weekends ago. I decided to check out Fox Den the day after they opened. Fox Den is such a cool space, and I love the fox and forest theme of the cafe.
Photo taken by me.
Walking into Fox Den, it feels like I’m going into a Dungeons & Dragons tavern. The walls are painted, illustrating a forest with trees with bright orange leaves on them. To the left are private gaming rooms, which can be reserved. This would be great for a local TTRPG group to meet up and have a private session. Trying to play TTRPGs at a game store can be distracting, so it’s neat that Fox Den has options for players. To the right is the gaming section. This place is huge! There were several long tables in the space. It didn’t feel crammed in the slightest. While Fox Den is a cafe, they also sell board games. I noticed in their case that they had Disney Lorcana product, which seems rare considering how it’s flying off the shelves. Off to the right, there’s the cafe, which has a full menu and coffee drinks. I ordered a cold brew with a shot of vanilla, and it was the extra-strength coffee drink I needed.
Photo taken by me.
Besides the gaming area, there were several booths to sit in. I liked the combination of having seating for open gaming and seating for those who are only there to have coffee, eat, and relax. I could see myself bringing my laptop and writing a few blog posts at Fox Den,which is kind of a nice change of pace.
Fox Denrecently posted its tournament schedule, which includes Lorcana, Magic: The Gathering, and Flesh & Blood. I hope that Fox Den will have Magic: pre-releases because I would absolutely attend. The environment at Fox Denwould be perfect for it.
I’m so glad that Fox Denis finally open, and I can’t wait to go back.
Happy New Year! 2024 has barely begun, and I already know it’s going to be a significant year. I will be turning 30 this year, which honestly doesn’t scare me all that much. If anything, I have felt more of the societal pressure that comes from turning 30. As a new year begins, I like to make a list of pop culture New Year’s resolutions instead of stereotypical New Year’s resolutions. I wanted to share what was on my list for last year and if I accomplished what I had set out to do.
2023 New Year’s Resolutions
Start Watching Mighty Nein – I did it! I’m currently on episode #11 when I’m writing this, but I did start the campaign. I have so much left to listen to. I’m not phased, I will get caught up on all things Critical Role eventually.
Read 100 Books, Comics, Graphic Novels, etc. – My final number was 71, which isn’t too bad. I think 100 is a miraculous, yet unattainable goal for me. I would rather read fewer things, but enjoy everything, than speed-read through things to get to the triple digits.
Play 4 Different PS4 or Console Games – I like this goal because it’s usually pretty easy to achieve. I ended up playing a good variety of different games that ended up becoming favorites of mine.
Play Through Marvel’s Spider-Man on a Tougher Difficulty – I am about a fourth of the way through this goal. I didn’t complete this in time for Marvel’s Spider-Man 2 release in October. It’s still on my radar, and I’m hoping to go back and complete the game sometime this year.
Rewatch Christopher Eccleston’s Doctor Who Series + Tennant’s Series by the end of the Year – This was an ambitious goal that I didn’t meet. I want to rewatch Doctor Who, but the sheer volume of episodes to watch is a little intimidating. With Critical Role taking up a lot of my time, I’m not sure if this is something that I want to make the time for right now. I could see once I’m caught up on Critical Role, I could see myself going back to Doctor Who at that time.
Now I want to share my resolutions for 2024.
Colored Contacts for Cosplay
I’m a part of a local cosplay Facebook group. I posted in the group looking for some tips on how to wear colored contacts, as I would love to start wearing colored contacts for cosplay. I received so many helpful tips, and overwhelmingly, everyone was saying how I should go to an optometrist. I have never needed glasses or contacts, so I figured I could simply order colored contacts online. However, they made a good point about how going to an optometrist was a good idea, especially because I have never put contacts in before, and I’m sure there is going to be a learning curve.
I wouldn’t wear colored contacts for every cosplay, but I’d like to at least look into it and see if this is something that would work for me.
Paint my Malifaux Minis
Photo taken by me.
I have never painted miniatures before. With that being said, I would like to start painting my Malifaux minis that I bought at Gen Con last year. I’m going to watch some video tutorials, so if anyone has any suggestions on various podcasts or YouTube channels to follow, I’m all ears.
Halfway through Mighty Nein
By the end of 2024, I’d like to be halfway through Mighty Nein, Critical Role’s 2nd campaign. Mighty Nein has a total of 141 episodes, with each episode being 3 1/2 – 4 hours on average. If I want to be halfway through the campaign by the end of 2024, I’d have to be on episode #71, rounded up. I think I can do it; it will be a challenge, but I’m looking forward to it.
Travel to One State or Country that I haven’t been to before
I have four weeks of PTO that I cannot wait to use throughout the year. As far as U.S. states, I have Washington, Oregon, Arizona, and New Mexico as my top choices to see. I have been trying to convince my husband that it would be cool to go to Australia or New Zealand. I think my husband wants to see more of Europe, so I’d be open to France or Italy. I love to travel, and I want to keep making travel a priority.
Play Four Different Console or PC Games
I think it’s nice to end with an easier resolution. I like making time for gaming, and 2024 will be no exception to that.
Happy New Year! I’m curious to see what 2024 brings.
This is the seventh Pop Culture Year in Review that I have written. When a new year begins, I keep a drafted post with the title being the current year. As the months progress, I keep track of the various movies, TV shows, video games, and comics I enjoy throughout the year. Additionally, I like to jot down the trips, conventions, and other random fun memories that happened, so I’m incredibly organized when writing this all out. 2023 was definitely a memorable year in many ways.
Movies I Watched
Set It Up
Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania
Underworld
Bullet Train
Exposed
Tenet
Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves
The Flash
Nimona
The Marvels
I was debating what my favorite movie of 2023 would be, and honestly, it has to be Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves. This movie was so funny. As the movie played out, I thought to myself what each of the characters must have rolled where that event would have occurred. This is done wonderfully in the way that Chris Pine plays a Bard and tries to create an illusion.
I think another favorite movie of mine would be The Marvels. I know not everyone liked The Marvels, but I loved it, and I can’t wait to re-watch it once it’s available to stream.
TV Shows I Watched
Critical Role Vox Machina Campaign!
The Umbrella Academy
Andor
Star Wars: The Clone Wars
The Night Agent
Hawkeye
This was a no-brainer; the best show I watched in 2023 was The Night Agent. The show was full of twists and turns, and I ended up finishing the show very quickly because I wanted to know what happened! It’s not often that I breeze through a show in a short amount of time.
The last thing that I will mention is how this was the year that I finally finished watching Star Wars: The Clone Wars. I had been watching The Clone Wars off and on for the past several years. I decided that this would be the year that I finished the series. I’m so glad I did. Ahsoka’s character arc is one of the most defining moments of the show.
Video Games I Played
Nancy Drew: Last Train To Blue MoonCanyon
Nancy Drew: Treasure in the Royal Tower
Vampire: The Masquerade – Coteries of New York
Gotham Knights
Star Wars Jedi: Fallen Order
Sudocats
Stray
Marvel’s Spider-Man New Game + (didn’t finish)
Marvel’s Spider-Man 2
Unpacked
I know this might be a shocker, but Marvel’s Spider-Man 2 is the best game I played this year. I say this sarcastically since I talk about the game all the time. This game was so good. I ended up playing for twelve hours straight, so I could finish the story without being spoiled. If that wasn’t enough, I finally unlocked all the trophies, which is something I don’t do very often. Marvel’s Spider-Man 2 was well worth the five-year wait.
Another gaming highlight was giving Jedi: Fallen Order another chance. I played Jedi: Fallen Order for the first time in 2020 and didn’t finish the story. It felt like I couldn’t go back and play it because it reminded me of 2020. Once enough time had passed, I started over with a new save file, and the game was awesome! I’m glad that I decided to go back to it.
Reviewing my gaming list, I had such a good year when it came to video games! Stray was another highlight of the year. The ending had me in tears, like the type of ugly crying where I couldn’t catch my breath. The first half of the year was more PC-focused, and the latter half of the year was more focused on playing games on my Switch. It’s tough balancing my console gaming with my PC gaming, but I felt like I did a good job at playing games on a variety of different systems.
Gaming in 2023
Photo taken by me.
One Night Ultimate Werewolf
Sherlock Holmes Consulting Detective
Llamas Unleashed
Wingspan
Marvel’s Villainous
Vagrant Song
I don’t think that I did the best when it comes to tracking all of the board games I played. Vagrant Song was probably my favorite board game that I played this year. I like the cooperative aspect of it, and the cartoonish art gives the game its unique feel. Another board game that I tried was Wingspan. Wingspan was fun to learn, and I liked being able to create my own wildlife center.
Graphic Novels / Comics I Read This Year
Vox Machina Origins Volume #1
Star Wars Hidden Empire Issue #1
Ironcat Issues #1 – #4
She-Hulk Issues #8 – #10
Lore Olympus Volume #1
Nailbiter Volumes #1 – #6
Mary Jane & Black Cat Issues #1 -#4
Bloodline Daughter of Blade Issues #1 & #2
Batman: Legends of Gotham Issue #1
Captain America: The Winter Soldier – Ultimate Collection
DC Titans Hunt Volume #1
Nightwing Issues #101 & #102
Suicide Squad: Bad Blood
Chainsaw Man Vol #1
Harley Quinn: The Animated Series: Legion of Bats Issue #1 & #2
Gangster Ass Barista Volume #1
The Umbrella Academy Volume #1
Quincredible Volume #1
Batman: The Dark Knight Returns
Cats! Girlfriends and Catfriends
Plume Volume #2
Crossover Volume #1
Moonknight Volume #2
Teen Titans Robin
Harley Quinn #28 and #30
Batgirls Volume #1
Box
Cat Gamer Volume #1
Ms. Marvel Issue #1
Harriet Tubman Demon Slayer Issue #1
Scarlet Witch Volume #1
Batgirl Birds of Prey Volume #2
Dark Ride Issues #1 and #2
Locke & Key Volume #1
The standout comics that I read in 2023 include Nailbiter, Captain America: Winter Soldier, Suicide Squad: Bad Blood, and Dark Ride. It feels like I read more superhero comics this year than indie comics. I want to take more trips to my local comic book store in 2024.
2023 Pop Culture Moments
Taylor Swift World Tour
Taylor and Travis Kelce
Honestly, 2023 was the year of Taylor Swift, enough said.
The first podcast I started listening to was Punch It Chewie Podcast. I found out about Punch It Chewie after stumbling upon Bella’s Instagram. Bella was describing a negative experience she had with a Star Wars fan who shared her videos and then made fun of her. As a result, she received horrific death threats online. It’s an awful situation, and no one deserves to be treated that way. One of the episodes details what Bella went through, and while it was hard to listen to, I’m glad that Bella felt comfortable sharing her story.
The second podcast I listened to was Live Laugh Lorcana. Live Laugh Lorcana is a podcast devoted to Disney’s trading card game Lorcana. It’s funny, I don’t have an interest in playing the game, but I still like listening to the podcast.
Catchiest Song in 2023
According to Spotify, the top song that I listened to in 2023 was Burn It to the Ground by Nickelback. Listen, I’m not going to stand for any Nickelback hate. When I think about what I had on repeat the most, I think that would be Drew Jacobs. Drew Jacobs has been doing hard rock covers of country songs, and they’re so good. I’m listening to God’s Country on repeat, and I love it.
Conventions I Attended in 2023
Photo taken by me.
I went to five conventions this year: Planet Comic Con, C2E2, CONvergence, Gen Con,and Twin Cities Con. I’m slowly getting back up to the number of conventions that I attended pre-COVID.
As Halloween approached, I was running out of time to put together a costume. As I was scrolling through Pinterest, I found a Kylo Ren cosplayer. I liked the way that her cosplay turned out and how she made the character her own. I pinned it to my cosplay board and used that as inspiration to put together my own take on the character. I’m proud of myself as I really liked how the costume came together, and I wanted to share how it all came to be.
Selfie taken by me.
Once I decided to put together a Kylo cosplay, I went to Amazon. While I don’t love the idea of supporting Amazon, it’s so convenient to order everything in one spot. I bought a black body suit, a black faux leather belt, a black drapey skirt, a red light sword (due to copyright), and a Kylo Ren mask. The black body suit was okay. It looked the way that I wanted it to, but the fit was a little odd. It’s not something that I would wear outside of wearing it as Kylo. The faux leather belt was top-notch, and I could see it lasting for a long time. The black drapey skirt added to the look, though the slits on the skirt are high. There isn’t a way that I can wear the skirt on its own without leggings underneath. The “light sword” I bought was a happy surprise. I figured it would be cheaply made, but it was actually decent. The Kylo Ren mask wasn’t a hard helmet like I had originally thought. Instead, it was a floppy mask. It wasn’t the end of the world; it just wasn’t what I was anticipating.
One thing that’s important with Kylo is the scar on his face. I was mulling this over for a long time. I’m not a makeup expert, so I rely on makeup tutorials to help me out. I ended up putting my own spin on how I wanted the scar to be. In Star Wars: The Last Jedi, Kylo’s scar is there, but it’s faded. I wanted the scar to look fresh, like Kylo just got hit with the lightsaber before putting on the Halloween costume.
Photo taken on my phone by another person at Twin Cities Con.
To accomplish this, I used: red lip liner, black eyeliner, brown eye shadow, and Vaseline. The red lip liner helped lay out the foundation of the scar. I ran the scar from my eyebrow, all the way down to my neck. The black eyeliner added a charred look. The brown eye shadow was how I tried to blend everything together, so it would appear more blended with my natural skin tone. Finally, the Vaseline was something I used to help give off that shiny coating. I got a lot of compliments on it, but whether that means the makeup was good or not is to be determined.
As I look back on the photos, I’m thrilled with how everything turned out. I think it was an accurate Kylo Ren cosplay, yet I was able to put my spin on the character. I think that’s what makes costuming and cosplay so fun for me. There’s a baseline of what the character looks like, but everyone can interpret that in their own way. I’m looking forward to cosplaying as Kylo Ren in the future, as this is one of my favorite cosplays that I have done.